Kathy Hepinstall lives in Austin, Texas and believes the following to be gentle men: Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Carter, Jimmy Stewart, and Mister Rogers.

What exactly is your definition of a gentle man? Do you know any? Please respond to: women@houseofgentlemen.com and we will try to post some of your answers.

Do you consider yourself a gentle man? Why or why not? Do you find that women’s expectations of men are too high? Please respond to: men@houseofgentlemen.com and we will try to post some of your answers.